found viagra in my dp's bag. Don't know why he has it

[juicychops]

me and dp have a very active sex life. most days that he's round mine we have sex which is 5-6 times per week. He's never had any problems 'getting it up'.

the other day i was putting clothes in dp's bag which he brings to mine with all his stuff in it. it was laying on top - there was a viagra box with a splinter pack for 4 tablets. 3 were missing. The date on the prescription sticker was xmas eve. I remember he was off work that day and off doing his own thing and getting last minute xmas presents for his kids so he obviously went docs too.

He's been under incredible stress lately but its never caused a problem in the bedroom.

That night we had sex - nothing out of the ordinary though just a normal half hour ish session. After i went downstairs to get a drink and i thought id check the packet. The last one had gone so he must have used it that night for sex.

Ive not mentioned it to him as i dont want to embarrass him. We have sex a lot so 4 tablets obviously dont last long. There was no difference in sex between that night and any other night so couldn't tell that it had made a difference.

i don't know why he got them from the doc. any ideas?

Hi everyone just checking in. Found another months worth (4 tablets) in dps bag few days ago. One was gone and the only time we had had sex between the date of the prescription and the time i found them was when we had a mega quickie - about 30 seconds worth of sex. I don't understand why he may have needed it for that. We hadn't seen each other for a few days so he definately should have been ok to 'perform'.

We had a big sex session 2 days ago and we also had sex last night and there is still only 1 tablet gone which proves he doesn't NEED them. I wish he would talk to me about why he feels he needs them.

Definately not going to bring it up with him ive decided. although he leaves them in his bag which he leaves at mine all week while he's staying here so i dont know if he wants me to find them without him having to bring it up

Why should he have been ok to perform? I'd say the opposite, he knows after a couple if days apart the pressure will be there to perform, as you put it, so he probably popped one to make sure he could get an erection.

Look up psychological ed, it may answer your questions.

I really don't understand why you can't just talk o him about it

you are partners, right ?

sex is an intimate thing, between partners

if you can't talk to someone who you are regularly being intimate with, it seems strange to me

I'd agree - talk to him! Hiding pills from you/dealing with ED alone is probably causing him more stress/ED problems than he had to start with.

And FWIW maybe he has a GP's prescription but maybe he buys extra online? I went out with someone who was too embarrassed to go to GP and he bought Viagra online (yes - despite warnings. I don't know exactly where he got them but they did work.)