you can probably guess what my question will be.
Basically my husband and I have a terrible sex life. Pretty much non existant. Cutting a very long story short. He's not interested in sex. I have tried EVERYTHING to try and address the problem, it has been a problem for last 10yrs and is the only area of our relationship which makes me very unhappy.
A few months ago, during one of our many rows/discussions on the subject, my husband broke down and finally admitted that a lot of the problem is that he is aware he has a small penis and it affects his confidence. I was very shocked by this...he's never mentioned that it bothers him before, in fact I thought that maybe he didn't realise it was small. After this admission, we've not spoken about it again nor had sex. I feel so sorry for him but also for me because how on earth do you solve that problem without making him feel so much worse about it.
Anyway, when I went for a recent smear test the doctor told me I had a 'loose vaginal wall' !! I asked what this meant and she said it was caused by childbirth, very common, if it's not causing me any problems don't worry about it. Now I was also shocked by this as I have had 2 c section so not actually given birth!! I have no problems with stress incontinence and thought things down there were pretty healthy.
Sooo....my question is - do vaginal cones help? Might the combination of a loose vaginal wall and a small penis be one of the reasons I never orgasm with husband? Do you think it would be worth getting some?
Where do you get them?
How long to get results?
Where do I get info on them, I don't really want to ask doctor about it...
Sorry for long post..I feel so guilty and disloyal even telling anonymous people my husbands problem.
Thanks