I had been with my DP for 4.5 years until 2 days after Christmas when he decided to dump me. We had a discussion a few weeks previously where he seemed a bit unhappy but I thought we had sorted everything out so it was a bit of a surprise but we seemed to be managing to keep it amicable despite still living together.
Fast forward a whole 4 weeks and he annouces he has a new girlfriend. I am not sure if I am being unreasonable in being angry but I think I am quite justified!(and was reasonably restrained in my response) It is someone he has been working with for the last few months. My feelings are that either a) there was some sort of EA going on which could have been the catalyst for our break up or
b)that he broke up with me and he is going out with her because she is the first person who showed an interest.
If it is a) I am really angry but he denies it and I think I believe him. The problem is that leaves b). He says he was friends with her at work (though never mentioned her) and then when he was about to leave she declared her interest and he is now with her.
Although I am actually not jealous I am really angry that our relationship meant so little that he is ready to jump into a relationship with someone else (casual sex would seem a more normal response!) and have lost my respect for him because he does not seem to be able to be single and sort himself out first(he is a having a general mid life crisis I think)
He does not seem to able to understand why his behaviour had made me upset. I don't know why I am posting about this but I guess I just want to know if my feelings seem normal!