We keep arguing. We split up 3 years ago but got back toogether 6 months later. NOw i am regreting it. Friends kept saying things will never change and they havn't, they have gone back the same. 2 children. My partner works almost every day leaving the house at 5.30 am returning at 8pm. I am permantly with the kids not family close by or that can stay. Friends have there own kids. Cant afford child care. Partner does not support mentally or with the kids. I do everything around the house and any new building works (extension). I even have to go to say the builders merchants and pick up bricks and heavy items with two kids under 2. He will not help because he is not around. Him and i don't eat until 8 - 9 pm which is too late for me as i am going to bed at 9. He knows how i feel but he does nothing to change.
Its my fault for going back to him. I know. He akes promises that he can not keep. He forgets everything even if it is to buy stuff for the kids meals etc. When he gets home at 8pm i then have to go shopping becuase he has forgotten it, etc.