splitting up, what to do?

[yoshysmum]

Right, so today I have given my other half 2 weeks to get out of the house, as his violence is escalating and I can't live like that any more. His parents agree.

So my question is what do I need to do?

I know I need to get the rented house in my name, change bank accounts, but what else?

Hope someone can help.

Well, I think the first thing you must do is make sure that it is not you that will be expected to leave.
OH suggests you aren't married and the rented house is in his name, are you sure that it is not you that must go?
Don't wish to be a doom merchant but not sure that it's as simple as telling him to go.
Also, even though he may be willing to leave, are you sure that your 'landlord' (using term loosely) will accept you as tenant?
I think you need to dot the i's on this one before anything else.

No offence but his parents agreeing is neither here or there-unless you mean in the way that they are willing to give him somewhere to stay.
You need to sort out housing issue straight away. Once things have calmed a bit, he may think, ' it, why should I go?' and make a fuss.

Sorry, we are married, i just didn't want to put dh as he isn't. It is a joint tenancy. He has agreed to go. His parents will give him support and help him move. I spent a lot of time on the phone to them today, even they have seen the change in him as he is agressive to his mum all the time. As we have a son aged 6 he agreed we need the house more than him.

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