My Father in Law is horrible - he is selfish, rude, inconsiderate (these are on good days!). We have just had a screaming match in front of husband and ds who was very upset and has said he doesn't want to see grandpa again - fine by me! This is the straw that broke the camels back after a long and unhappy relationship with the man. I will not be controlled. I had a wonderful father who has sadly passed and have a fantastic mother who is amazing with me and ds. Does the father in law have any legal rights (there is loads more I could put in about him but want to keep the message short - too late I know!)