H pushed me.

[sadsacks]

My mariage is over. hes gone door bolted cant talk in rl, im still shocked.

H and me have not been getting on for a long time. tonight he infront of the 2 kids and whilst holding bubba threw me in to the wall i cut my head on the airing door.

He left the kids up stairs, i ran downstairs to phone police he smashed my phone and home phone.

He pulled my hair got bubba as bubba was crying and gave bubba to me. he said i should shut up or hed hit me hard and one day he will kill me. he then spat at me covering me and the baby in his spit. then he went.

Contacted people to come over, so will be safe. i will report him aswell but i feel sick im not ready to talk yet. i came here as it's anon and i can say 100% what happened without shame. pls don't troll me or me. i just want to read in silence does anyone understand?

The phone breaking stuff is viewed seriously by the poice. It's like he wanted to stop you calling them.

The advice you've received above is sound.

I am a solicitor and one of my accreditations with the Law Society Advanced Family Law Panel is for domestic violence.

Your first port of call should always be the police. If they arrest him they should only release him on bail conditions that ensure he stays away until the case is heard. Then at that hearing the court has the powere to make a restraining order against him.

If you take that route you'll not need to apply for an injunction.

If the police don't give you this protection you should see a solicitor as soon as possible. You won't get legal aid however unless you've gone to the police first or a warning letter has been sent to him.

I can understand of you don't want to be aroud the house right now, but you need to consider quickly where you want to be when all this dies down. If you want to remain in the house then bail conditions may enable you to return there. That way you can secure the contents and have your child disrupted as little as possible.