Fancy the panse off my Hubbie but I lack sex drive!!

[P0shPaddy]

New to this so not good with the jargon but here it goes:

I can honestly say I LOVE my hubbie and still have those CORRRR!! moments after being together nearly 20 years. Dont get me wrong we have our ups and downs like other couples but we're a partnership and we're good for each other. We both work full time but share bringing up our 2 DS and house work etc.
BUT the one think that is getting me down (and I know its now getting to my hubbie) is my lack of sex drive. My hubbie does/says all the right things but I'm just lacking any sex drive. I'm 39 is this normal? Am I normal? My poor other half would be happy even once/twice a week jiggy jiggy but I'm more of a monthly kind of girl if that....HELP!!!!

In all honesty, just do it! If the sex is good and you enjoy it once you get going, then make more of an effort.

Sex shouldn't be just another chore, it's shared pleasure and rather than sapping your energy, I find it revitalising and mood lifting.

malificence
Couldn't have put your post better myself

I have a very low sex drive. We are mainly twice a monthly people because of me, but in the last 3 weeks we have done it 4 times

I feel great afterwards - (obviosuly ) and the day after too, i feel it keeps that spark burning the more we do it. I am on the pill injection and am blaming that, but im hoping its coming back gradually

I agree go for it, I lost mine while pg with dd and it has came back as we both made an effort. You'll be back in the swing of it in no time

Yeah, go for it anyway. Sometimes sex is like working out, you may not feel like going to the gym, but when you get there you always end up working out and are glad you did. Orgasms are great for your health! Maybe you could see it as doing something healthy for yourself weekly not only for your husband.