Why would a colleague of my H's

[domeafavour]

Send him two pictures of her handbag?
Why?
One is of the inside, there's nothing in there, and the other of the outside?

We are separating but had sneaky look at his phone tonight.
I don't get it?

You're separating, it isn't important.

hes bought it her?

Because she's drunk?

She sent photos at lunchtime so not drunk, she is happily married I think.
Thanks myleetlepony, it's really not like you can switch your emotions off instantly

Maybe he wants to buy it and she said she would send pictures of it.

She said she was going out at lunchtime to buy said bag
he laughed at her and the price and womens obsession with bags
so she texted pic of said bag in effort to explian import of it

don't go looking at his phone

you'll see things that aren't there probably

He is listing it for her on ebay (says DH)

maybe he wants to buy himself a new handbag and she was offering him fashion advice?

really, the others are right - leave his phone

Made me laugh sycamore!! He doesn't know what eBay is!!
Well not for selling things.
You're right, who knows and I shouldn't care but it's just weird!

Oh well, mystery solved. It was a present for me. He obviously sent her out to get it.

You are seperating and hes bought you a handbag??

Aww why??

Sounds like a reasonably amicable separation.

Hope so - they are all too rare.

Glad the mystery is solved.

Also, hope it is a NICE handbag.

Yes it was my birthday. He's still in the house so he bought ne a present. It's actually a purse but it is very nice.

He's in denial. Doesn't want it to over. X

at least it wasnt a photo of her tits.

???

How's it going Dome?
I see he is still there then. How are things progressing?

Really shit. Feel awful.
His mum is very ill has just started radiotherapy. He is going to see her thursday. Obviously he is very upset about that. I Just want him to leave.

Thanks

So where does that leave you? In limbo?

Well he is definitely coming round to the idea that I will be happier without him. Things are calm. We are both sad.
His mum doesn't know how bad things are with us, she is in Australia. Might have to take ds out to see her if her health gets really bad.
Yes I guess I am in some kind of limbo. He is away a lot over the next couple if months. I just want to be left alone.

So are you not initiating divorce proceedings yet?

Well the advice from the solicitor was to talk and keep it as amicable as possible. And then get divorced after two years separation. Not spend the next six months fighting and arguing over house, ds, Monet etc because he won't accept it.
I'm gonna give him til the end of feb, he is away most of it anyway. And then if he doesn't accept that it's over I will go back to the solicitor. We were going to try mediation anyway, so maybe I just get that sorted when he is away. Not to get us back together, just to separate amicably.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mean staying friends, I just mean not killing each other!

Thanks for the update. How draining this must all be.

have 2 more nights to get through, and then he is away for the best part of 2 weeks.
Yay!!!