ok, bear(bare?) with me because i am not quite sure what it is I'm trying to say.
have recently started chatting with my best friend's BIL on fb, i only accepted him because of the connection with BF, he is not my type at all going on what BF has told me about him and the first time i met him (at BF's wedding, he was veeerrry drunk). so anyway started chatting and we met for a playdate with our dcs in softplay, got on ok, nothing noteworthy, a few awkward silences as we don't really know each other. then through more chatting on FB it became clear he was interested in us dating. we get on very well on our chats but i really wasn't interested in dating him so i told him this and he accepted that, we have carried on chatting on fb, but now, i am starting to really like him!! why?? he is not my type at all and i have told him i am not interested, and i wasn't but now i keep on hoping he's been in touch and wanting to see him again. but i don't want a relationship with him. i don't have any male friends taht i can talk to the way i have been talking with him, is it this am i just confusing friendship and enjoying talking to someone with being attracted to them?