I love MN because clever, witty, sharp and worldly women seem to be overrepresented. But there's still room for everyone! However, in life I'm finding that I hold back a lot of myself for fear of offending or upsetting others - for example, by nature my sense of humour is very dark, I swear terribly and I am very open about myself and my past. But even with some mum friends I meet very regularly I keep much of this back. I've learned to spot the nervous laugh or the blank look that means whoever I'm talking to isn't on my wavelength. I feel like I want to be able to confide and enjoy girls nights out but similar people don't seem to be out there. Maybe it's cos they're all on here?!