Have a lot of issues with my mother from childhood,
our relationship has been strained lately as everything, for me, has been resurfacing and she has (a lot of people have mentioned it to me too) reverted to her old behaviours due to a traumatic event I think.
Anyways after xmas we ended up having a big argument, well WE didn't, she upset me and DH stood up for me as I can't confront her, this led to her and my DH arguing and my dad saying he was going to 'get in his car' to see DH, this is the kind of stuff i have to deal with 
Anyways PATHETIC as this may seem, i'm going to ask...
I was a veggie for years - i don't deal with meat well, so when i make a dinner, we do have meat but i have to use bisto gravy made up with veg stock as i can't have the gravy made from the fat and juice of a roast.
My mum knows this and is always saying how easy it is to make 'real' gravy.
she went to my sisters for new years tea,
we aren't speaking and she posted on her facebook
'so lovely having dinner with my family at new years, am so happy, thanks to (other DD) for making dinner, such lovely real gravy - non of that bisto shit'
Is that a dig at me??
or have i just been so upset at her that im imagining it??
I just don't see WHY she would mention the gravy at all TBH!!