DH and I currently have differing sex drives. He hasn't changed in the years we have been together but I have. I feel rejected, he feels I am being unreasonable. Was a big problem a few years ago when I had attention of an ex who I still really fancy though nothing happened. I wanted to use the thrill with my husband but we soon went back to once a week or so. I feel fed up that he doesn't want it more (feel rejected and not attractive) he feels miffed as it is quality over quantity for him. He would always be happy to play with me but sometimes I want him, not just an orgasm and I feel 
for wanting loads of sex.