friends dh made 2nd pass at me .

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ok, I'll keep this short, my friends dh tried to kiss me once before. this time I was drunk and let him. I know it's wrong, but it made me feel special. We talked briefly the day after and I said maybe we should forget what happened, and he said maybe we should.Was he just drunk, would he do this twice if it was just that ? I can't stop thinking about it, me and dh have'nt been exactly hitting it off recently (well for a couple of years). I think i need someone to tell me not to be so stupid and stop thinking about this man, but I can't and theres no one I can talk to.

stop being so stupid and think of your friend

Don't be so stupid and stop thinking about this man!

Seriously, ask yourself what kind of friend you are to this woman if you're snogging her dh. If you want to have a fling, pick someone else.

Stupidity indeed. No good will come of it.

Er,don't be so stupid.

Suggest you see your friend, and avoid situations where her dh is around. Potential disaster, so don't tempt yourself.

Don't even think about doing this again, ever. Avoid her dh at all costs. And NEVER tell anyone about it either, too much potential for real heartbreak.

If your marriage is bad, take steps to sort it out, but don't use someone else's dh.

Stay away from this man at all costs - it will all end in tears in terms if this was taken any further. This man is not to be trusted, okay you let him kiss you but it could be argued he also took advantage of your drunkenness.

If you and DH are not getting on, why not consider going to Relate on your own if need be?. They are there for people with relationship problems. There is someone you can talk to - you're wrong in that regard. You should also realise that affairs are symptomattic of problems in the relationship.

I would urge you to deal with your own relationship problems through Relate rather than have a fling and potentially wreck even more lives.