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What should I do?

13 replies

speaktoyou · 30/12/2010 14:16

I dont like my family-in-laws.
How much I dont like is I dont feel comfortable to see my husband's present from his family in my home. I tried but changing feeling is out of my control.

What should I do?...

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AnotherMumOnHere · 30/12/2010 14:25

I dont post a lot on here speaktoyou but I think you will have to give the girls more info if you want help with your situ.

atswimtwolengths · 30/12/2010 14:44

Is it something you could break?

TheSecondComing · 30/12/2010 14:46

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SheWillBeLoved · 30/12/2010 14:47

You should grow up Hmm you can't bare to see his present from his family? Get over yourself.

speaktoyou · 30/12/2010 15:18

The reason I dont like them is because the way of they treat their in-law is not mature.

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FlyingSquirrel · 30/12/2010 15:21

Um, disliking a gift under the tree isn't terribly mature is it?

Rise above.

And yes, more info please.

LoveBeingADaddysGirl · 30/12/2010 15:27

What is the gift?

speaktoyou · 30/12/2010 15:39

The gift itself is normal e.g. clothes, fragrances.

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SheWillBeLoved · 30/12/2010 15:45

So what do you mean by 'not mature'? What specific in laws are you referring to?

LoveBeingADaddysGirl · 30/12/2010 15:49

So if it is a gift just for you, throw it away give it to a charity shop, just get rid of it. If the ask itbroke, shrank whatever.

overmydeadbody · 30/12/2010 15:52

You're being very controlling.

Even if you don't like them, they are your husband's parents for goodness sake, he is entitled to have presents from them without you prjecting your feelings of hate onto the presents.

If they gave the presents in good faith and with love, to their son, you need to just accept it and get over yourself.

speaktoyou · 30/12/2010 16:07

I was referring to MIL.

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NoNamesNoPackDrill · 30/12/2010 18:31

So how does MIL behave to you? Was it a one off or an ongoing series of hurtful events? How long have you been part of the family?

Go on, we really want to help you! Smile

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