I split from dp 2 year ago we agreed every fortnight and once a week contact, but he was turning up unannounced when and what time he liked.
I met a partner all was fine till the dc mentioned that dp told the dc he wanted to kill himself and was asking personal questions about what activities was happening and keep an ear out!!
He kept threatening me about taking me to court for the dc then and kept texing blackmailing messages about what his solicitor was saying so I stopped contact and went to a solicitor myself they wrote a letter stating why and what.
3 months had gone by he went on holiday done what he needed to do now has decided he wants the dc I'm willing for the dc to see their dad but he has been asking them who they want to live with and saying stuff like me and a mate are coming to get you and take you away also stuff like if you live with me will have and get this this and this.
I don't want to lose my children I want to do things right which is why I want it sorted it just feels as tho he can use the kids against me blackmail me and emotionally blackmail the kids but if I say or go to do something I mustn't as it will look as tho I'm using the kids against him so at this stage I feel what is the point because I'm wrong either way
Please help