Please bear with me as I am very drunk but.....

[dalek]

do you think it's true that men only stray if there is something wrong at home or are all men (and women) capable of cheating if there was no possibility that they would get caught out.

I have a DH who nobody would believe would stray but did (emotional - as far as I know - affair) and brother in law who was a complete dog in the past but who is now utterly devoted to his wife.

There were some issues at home for us (new baby - me giving up wrk - him working all hours - maybe a bit of PND) but I never believed he would - now I am Mrs cautious and feel a little bit soiled.

What does Mn think?

I don't think that someone having an affair, be it emotional and/or physical, means there is something wrong at home. I expect that no one will agree with me though.

I don't think you can generalise like that 'all men'.

I think some men and women just can't stay faithful to one person, some stray only when something is wrong, and some stray as it's their only escape route.