Just coming on to rant really....
DH left to go and get milk, that was two hours ago (the shop is across the road!!)
I'm sure he's headed to the big shops or a cafe - anything to not be at home with me and our two DC's.
It all kicked off yesterday, dragged him to Church (should have left him at home) he grumbled along.
Came home and dc's played with new presents and I did lunch.
Had lunch.
No thank you.
He barely spoke a word, we had two guests one of which didn't speak English, so it was me keeping the conversation going between the guests and the two DC's (2 & 3 yrs).
After lunch DH fell asleep on lounge, boys played around him.
I cleaned up.
I put DC's to bed.
Then went to bed myself.
This morning decided if he wants to be like this then so will I, so I decided to stop talking and do nothing. (well tried to do nothing but couldn't when it came to feeding DC's and changing nappies etc). DC's have been stuck inside all day and climbing the walls.
So it hasn't been a fun day and now he's left.
He really doesn't want to be part of this family
This is only the past two days, we obviously have a history and it does evolve around me not feeling he makes us his priority. I've complained in the past that he would rather spend time in a coffee shop and hang with his friends than be with us or do something with the boys. And also do work, which I can understand work taking a prority but he has to get the balance right.
A perfect example of this is that he often sees client in the mornings and evenings, leaving hours free during the day. NEVER would he think of coming home to see the boys or do something with the boys (we live a ten minute walk from work). He would always choose getting a bus to the shopping centre and sitting in a cafe for those few free hours.
SO YES I'M FRUSTRATED AND FED UP