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Anyone else have a "spartan" for a DH??

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Joolyjoolyjoo · 23/12/2010 22:08

DH is watching 300 on the tv, and apparently spartans "don't show emotion" Hmm. He says he must be related to the Spartans.

DH has always been a hard one to read, and is definitely NOT one for showing emotion. Which is the complete opposite to me (am almost TOO emotive Blush)

the children are also (led by me, I guess, and my dad) very demonstrative and open. I worry sometimes that DH is a bit "left out" as I am very close to my dad, and the kids are too, and we are all very huggy, demonstrative people.

While I wish DH would show his feelings more, I have gotten fairly good at reading him over the years, which sometimes seems to almost annoy him (how well I "know him"), as he seems to quite like this man-of-mystery persona. Dad gets him too, and we all get on well, despite the fact that DH is so stiff-upper-lippy. He is forces (since 16) and I am sure this is part of it.

Best to just let him be "a Spartan" and work round it, or should I be trying to encourage him to be more open???

OP posts:
FlightoftheCrimbleTree · 24/12/2010 10:23

This is interesting.

It sounds as though he likes being that way - are you happy enough with him as he is?

thenightsky · 24/12/2010 12:46

Hmm... perhaps we could blend our DHs and get a decent balance. I am married to a man who weeps with emotion watching Worlds Strictest Parents and Supernanny.

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