Posted a while back, met a guy who turned out to be a real shit but we had the MOST amazing sex - only one night of it mind which wasn't my intention and not seeing him now. But he's re-ignited my dormant libido, for which I'm very grateful :)
I always thought I was looking for something long-term but this has made me re-evaluate. I'm early 50s, divorced, well set-up financially, attractive and have a gorgeous DD. So I don't need a man for a lot of things. But what this had made me realise after months of being celibate, is how much I love sex. It's the old use it or lose it thing I suppose. I'm not into one-night stands, rather I'd like a part-time relationship involving loads of sex with someone I really like and respect and where we treat eachother with kindness and consideration. He could be considerably younger than me, that wouldn't worry me.
I just feel like I'm on fire at the moment and have gained great inspiration from reading Jane Juska's Round-Heeled Woman again. Has anyone else been in this situation? Am I deluding myself that an arrangement like this could work? I've been a serial long-term monogamist for years with a couple of interludes when I went a bit mad before I had my daughter. I don't want to spend the next few years celibate and I've given up trying to find a new life partner (and believe me I've tried!). Any tips on how to find something like this?