I dont get on well with my family but my DS (11) does
We wont have to see them very much but when they do come I will get snide remarks about my son, my dogs, my cat, my house, my garden etc etc
I am as detached from them in my day to day life as possible and I try not to get upset
Any tips on how to get over christmas without causing a scene and having to argue my point
At this stage I dont care what point I ever had but they seem to find more all the time