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family probs

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upoff · 28/09/2005 14:24

Does anyone else have a dp that has fallen out with your immediate family?? Has happened to me and I find it very upsetting indeed.

ANyone with any experience of this?

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feverfew · 28/09/2005 19:55

changed my name for this in case DH reads it - he's not fell out with my immediate family but clearly doesn't like them, I go to see them on my own, do the family thing on my own, he turns up when he absolutely has to. In fact he doesn't really mix with any of my friends socially, I go to most parties on my own, out with work on my own, the last occassion he came to with me was my best friends son's baptism, he didn't come to the church and then spent the rest of the afternoon walking round after our children, I can't remember if he even spoke to anyone.

I just let him get on with it, I gave up long ago trying to make him like them or get on with them.

He probably visits at Christmas, and that's about it

jamboure · 28/09/2005 21:09

ok this could be lon sorry

after a rough relationship i met dh who was sooo different to my ex, he cared for me, wanted to do things together, likes to walk hand in hand nice stuff really.

My mother the bitch that she is took a dislike to him when things between us got serious. We used to go for dinner at hers on our day off every tuesday then as quick as it started it stopped, she started saying he was no good etc.

My argument was that with my ex i was constantly drinking, taking drugs and after meeting dh my life changed for the better, which she of course denied.

Was with dh 3 years when we married and the bitch sent me a sympathy card dh offered to leave so as i could reunite with my family but naturally i stayed with him.

she has sent letters to his previous employer0where he was a store manager stating he was a criminal- always attending court( evil woman) in the hope he would be sacked which backfired. DH was engaged prior to meeting me and he had a little girl with his ex, he and his ex seperated when dd was 2 yrs, and 6 years ago we found out through DNA testing that dd was in fact NOT dh child. My evil mother used to rub dh nose in it all the time saying hurtful things regarding the child.

We now have 3 sons who don't see their grandmother- ds1 witnessed her and my sister attack me in asds when i brought the twins home from hospital and he also has not forgotten.

Sometimes dh still asks if i would like him to leave because of the situation but I love him with all my heart and would choose him every time

SORRY its long

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