My "moving on" thread

[Bigregrets]

So ladies ( and gents) some of you may have read my original posts of being a complete selfish twat and having a 3mth affair with MM.
I took advice from those who posted and am now starting to try and build up a relationship with H and see if we can move on. H does not know at this stage about said affair and if possible, i don't want him ever to.
I sent off forms for relate counselling last week ( for myself) to get to the root of everything and try and work out why i did the above and how to move one.

Also stayed home yesterday to spend some time with H instead of going out to avoid being in.
Asked H to pass the phone please ( sorting out a bill) he replied with " Are your legs broke" Charming.
Anyway - onwards and upwards as they say. Currently waiting for my appt to come through for counselling.

Good luck Bigregrets. Will be following.

Good luck Bigregrets. What would you say are the positive things about your relationship and what are the things that you want to work on? What are the things you like about yourself and your life? Might it be helpful to write these things down and get them into some order in your mind?

Happy New Year to you all.

Just a quick update to say i have my first counselling session tonight - fairly nervous as i will be pouring out my secrets to a total stranger - i know thats what i'm doing here but i don't know anyone's faces if that makes sense.

Hope everyone is well.

Good luck Bigregrets.

Remember to be honest about how angry/hurt/sad etc you feel. Treat it as a safe environment to really rant if you want to.

Some secrets are better off not being secrets so get them out there.

Put your good clothes on and hold your head up high. It won't solve the problems but people will think you are a positive person and treat you that way and you might feel it too.