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dp driving me mad I think we are going to end up splitting up

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shortnotsweet · 14/12/2010 11:19

He lies a lot not about massive things (usually) but about stupid things and now I find it hard to believe anything he says.

He is rubbish in the morning. I am usually bf baby first thing and he will get up first and do the dc breakfast while I sort out uniforms,hair and baby.
This morning the baby slept in and I saw him walk in dd's room say her name and then pick her straight out of the bed she stood shaking in the middle of the room :(.
He then made breakfast which was basically warm bread and a glass of water he then got annoyed when I made them some more breakfast because what he made was inedible.

Everyday I have to ask him the same stuff
If I don't ask him he will forget and then be arsey.

He is now moaning about work he has the chance continuing his extra hours after xmas and he is coming out with stuff about a new manager who might not let him do the new hours now Hmm part of me thinks this is bullshit and he just wants an excuse not to do the hours.

I know I could just take over with breakfast and other stuff but it just means I will end up doing everything and he will sit back and let me.

I actually want us to split up I think as I can't stand that a man in his 30's is such a child.
I don't want to be a control freak or a nag just because I have a pair of tits.

OP posts:
starsher · 14/12/2010 16:12

You arent on your own in this, after having my baby 6 wks ago I now feel like I have two kids one in his thirties!!

I have a slightly different problem though, that I/We come second in priority to World of warcraft online game. We only spend probably a couple of hours together a day if that, as he is glued to the PC.

I too am finding myself wondering whether it is worth it anymore. I do, do everything as if not it would not get done and too much hassle to nag - cant be bothered to after so long.

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