Have namechanged
I have literally no libido and it is starting to make me feel really low. DH and I haven't had sex since october - since dc were born (6 and 4) we've normally managed a couple of times a month give or take.
We had a good sex life before children - but it has dwindled to bordering on non existent; dh has tried to initiate sex over the last few months and I'm just not interested - there is literally no spark - nada. When we were on holiday over the summer though it was a different matter - we were so relaxed and life was so easy.
We do work very hard - and work different shifts so that we are rarely in bed at the same time which is a difficulty in itself. We are just too tired when we are together and tbh I'd rather go to sleep. When we are both together we are very affectionate and loving - I just have no desire to have sex :(
So - what can I do? I had a new mirena coil fitted about 3 months ago and thought it might be that - should I go and see the doctor or will they laugh at me?