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My husband has a couple pictures taken with his female friend - different girl for each pic. I've met them before so I know it doesnt mean anything. But is it common a married man have a piture with a girl on his blog? I thought it's not a good manner towards his wife.

Is it something I can ask my husband to remove these photos?

Why don't you ask him about them?

Is he doing anything strange in the photos or just standing next to them? Don't really see a problem with it. My partner has photos of himself with female friends on his facebook profile and it doesn't bother me. It's just a photograph of him standing next to another person. People love to take photos at parties and then put them up on facebook, with or without permission!

Does he have you as well?
Does his profile say he's married?

yes, it's common. My DH has several female friends and several photographs.

is it his profil pic or just one of his photos?

It doesnt matter - really its nothing.

one of his photos

Yes his profile says he's married

How odd that you'd be concerned. They aren't snogging or groping or anything are they? Naked perhaps?

why exactly does it worry you?

wouldn't bother me, unless it was his profile pic and it was just dh and another woman. i'd think that was odd.

If its his profile pic then that's weird.

If they're just part of a set of pics then - no problem.

One of them was a club photo with his female friend and the other was taken with his another female friend on his holiday before marriage. No strange pose or anything...but I wanted to know if is it ordinary a married man uploads pics with just himself and ONE female friend where everyone sees. I feel it's more like what a single man is doing.

Eh? You are wayyyyyyyyy over thinking this, ok I could almost understand if he was plastering pictures of his ex's etc over his fb BUT these women are friends. You can have firends of the opposite sex.

FB is for people to share and laugh about past times too, god the amount of pics that I have tagged of me from years ago, school, etc, etc.

I haven't blacked out all the male faces etc .

I think you have skewed security issues and the defenition of what married means tbh.

Can I ask, are you from a different country or culture perhaps? It's just this really seems like a silly thing to be worrying about from where I come from.

Are they friends, or past girlfriends? If it is just friends then I wouldn't worry, if it is ex girlfriends I think I would ask him to take them off, I think that would be weird.

Your last post reads like exes tbh.

Unless they're naked and licking each other, it's absolutely fine.

I take it you don't have any pics with any men other than your DH on your FB?

Depends. If the only photos he has on facebook are of these women then that's odd.

If he's got loads of photos of them, other mates, family, you... then they're just photos and you're overthinking.

Talk to him if you're worried.

Is the implication here that men and women just shouldn't be friends, generally? Because if so, then that is pretty insane.

Sounds like quite controlling behaviour to me.

You could try therapy to help you get over your problem.

Are you the same poster as "splendid"?

I'm with those who think you seem to have some very peculiar ideas and insecurities. If I were your husband I'd be seriously weirded out by your obession with his FB pictures, which sound quite harmless to me. If you're that bothered about it tell him for fuck's sake: but don't be surprised if he gets a bit pissed off. I can imagine you checking his mobile phone and his emails as well.

It is quite normal in this western European culture, but you sound slike English is not your first language, so maybe it is not normal where you come from. Hence why it is bothering you.

You should not let it bother you though.