My sister has had an on again/off again relationship with Mr X over the last year. He let her down time and time again, changing plans at the last minute, standing her up and not answering phone calls. I haven't met him yet (mainly to do with his changing plans all the time!) but his behaviour sounded erratic and apparently he had a lot going on in his life and possibly had depression. I have been shocked about how much she put up with (not like her) and it's been horrible listening to her when she's been really upset about it all.
A few months ago she decided enough was enough and told him never to contact her again.
Anyway, somehow he has wangled his way back into her life and it appears like it is very much back on. She told me she's thinking of moving in with him and apparently he is a "changed man". She also said that he seems to need to speak to her several times a day and appears anxious if he doesn't.
This is ringing warning bells with me. Could I be wrong?