If you read any of my posts you will see I've had a good dating history recently. I'm a single woman that is looking for a relationship but I'm also a woman that is ok with sexuality and one night stands to tide me over and have had quite a high number of lovers in my lifetime
Met a man of a dating site last week, he unusually, IME, moved things along quite quickly and we had a coffee date the day after first contact. In a week we had 3 dates and then met last night. Went for a drink but were both freezing so came to mine to watch xfactor
Now, here's the refreshing thing... He asked permission before kissing, never had that before!
Things moved on from kissing and at every point he asked permission to move things on (not in a weird way, in a nice reassuring way) No running ahead of himself and just 'going' for it. All the while checking I was ok and happy and happy to continue. I realised, I have never had a man treat me with such respect in the bedroom. My experiences haven't been bad in the past but I have never had a man verbalise concern in this way. It's hard to say how this difference has made me feel
He's a nice guy, hopefully he will keep being a nice guy, just wanted to share anonmously and ask if anyone else has ever been with a man like this and if anyone else had the strange feeling 'wow, it should always be this way' I'm experiencing today. I'm not meaning being taken with a particular person, just about having someone make sure you are fully consenting to everything and that you are enjoying what is happening
(got a feeling I haven't expressed this very well)