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Feel proper crappy about this one.

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hellview96 · 22/11/2010 11:33

I have been married for a while now and we live together in his house that he used to share with his exwife, they brought up their child there for a few years before they split.

We have the house for sale and I am dieing to get out of the house, not only for the reason of I don't feel it is my house but we live really far away from family and I don't get to see them as often as we like. PLus the area is undesirable and I don't enjoy living here, there is nothing to do, one grotty little park.

We looked into the option of renting the house out and I advertised it to see if anyone would be interested and I found a couple that seemed really into it.

I got all excited and carried away but eventually my husband said no.

He seems to have no problem living here and looks at me like I am mental to be finding problems. He said that I am being ungrateful for what he is providing for me and I am being selfish in pushing the move.

I said far too much in the heat of the arguement and what I felt last night was that because I am the SAHM and not bringing in the income I should put up and shut up.

Living here is proper stressing me out, and now I feel that I am overeacting and to add to the stress I feel guilt for being ungrateful!

I just wanted to ARGH about this really, would appreciate any advice or a slap to the face?

OP posts:
joanne34 · 22/11/2010 11:40

so your dh has a dc from an ex in the area ???

hellview96 · 22/11/2010 11:47

yes but all the properties I have looked at have been in a very complicated radius of family, work and his ex and their child because we have her once a week and I don't want the trip to pick her up and drop her off to be too far away.

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Tortoiseonthehalfshell · 22/11/2010 11:50

You have the house up for sale, but he doesn't want to rent it out? Eh? Have you two agreed to move, or not?

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