Background:
My sister's husband is an arse. Never liked him but got on with him for sister and her kids sake. 4 months ago he did something (or rather said something) unforgivable about me in front of his kids (did write about this some months ago if anyone remembers - but had thread removed because it contained too much details).
This resulted in considerable problems in their relationship which are still not resolved ..(and brought to light problems that had always been hidden from the family) but have resulted in 'on going talks'. I have not seen or spoken to him since (refused). I believe he is emotionally abusing my sister. I have continued to be supportive towards my sister - and see her and the kids regularly...in some ways this has made us closer because she has shared her thoughts and feelings ... something she never really did before...however..
It is becoming more difficult not to see him. BTW he has NOT apologised for his behaviour and i get the feeling that he doesnt even understand why he should! Xmas is coming up, family meals etc .. I dont want to 'give in' but it is making it really difficult for my sister and the rest of my family. I dont want my sister to feel in the middle. Sorry I am rambling a little ... what do i do ?? or what would you do ?