paranoia?

[monstersmummy]

DP is a musician...he had a gig Wed that ex girlf was invited to i;ve not been to one since he started with this current band and had arranged for his mum to sit tonight but he said no coz the ex would be there? am i right to worry?

never mind...realised i should post when i am not tipsy..igore me

please!

lol at "should not post when tipsy".

probably not any reason to worry anyway.

wass just thinking how horrid it is to have that sort of 'worry'

Probably just didn't want to be distracted from his 'muusic' by two girls scrapping in the audience! This would p me off though. Mind you, I don't exactly have the patience of a saint...

ooh that should read should not post when tipsy

means the same thing doesntit??

if he's really sensitive [lol] it might be that he wouldnt want you to waste a babysitting 'credit' from you mum ,on a night that might be less great cos of his ex bird??

make any sense?

try not to worry youll go mad x

who invitred his ex girlfriend?

perhaps he just didn't want you to feel uncomfortable

Whyever wouldn't he want you there just because EX is going? It doesn't make sense and yes, you're right to worry and question him imo, this wouldn't be acceptable in our house.

I'd want to know
a) why ex is invited and you're not. Why she was in the first place. Ok if they're still friends maybe it's understandable but in that case it shouldn't matter if you go or not.
b) why it's up to him if you go or not
c) if he has anything to hide. If he doesn't why wouldn't he want you to go?

Sorry, prob not the answer you were hoping for. Maybe it's not as it seems and he does have another genuine reason but if so he ought to come out with it a bit DQ imo.