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night out with girlfriend now being accused of sleeping with someone !

13 replies

everton · 07/11/2010 14:34

Hi,

Complicated background to all this but basically me and partner are giving each other some time and space. We decided this on wednesday this week, Since then we haven't spoke ot txt. Not in a angry way just so that we can have time to think etc. So last night a friend asked me to go out. Instead of mpooing at home i decided to. Went for nice curry. On way back to her house she bumped in to a man she has dated a few times and he asked us both to go to a house party. she really wanted to but i ddin't. So we decided she would go and i would go back to her house, which I did. She asked me to txt her to say i was safe which i thought i had. I had txt my partner instead. The txt said, got back fine. That man you are dating seems lovely but still you know what men are like to careful. see you at ten in the morning if not before. She got back at 6am cause she felt bad leaving me alone, so soon after that i left and drove home. Wanted to have shower in my shower etc. Then got a txt frompartner saying was i ok. So explained what happened to him. He doesn't believe me said it was wierd and accused me of sleeping with someone! is this just me or is it him that is being wierd ??

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emmyloulou · 07/11/2010 14:38

I think I just about managed to make the situation out.

Went out with friend, she went on to party without you, you text her (but your partner by mistake) to say you got back by yourself ok.

He now thinks you have cheated?

Yes it's weird.

moraldisorder · 07/11/2010 14:38

Umm... delete his number so you don't do this again.

Am I correct in assuming that you text him 'accidently' on purpose?

rainbowinthesky · 07/11/2010 14:39

Is he very young? Personally I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with someone like that.

everton · 07/11/2010 14:41

Yes, went out with friend, she partyied i didn't that was it. Txt was a real accident. No he is 38 years old !

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rainbowinthesky · 07/11/2010 14:44

Everton - surely this behaviour sends a message to you?? WHat else is he like?

moraldisorder · 07/11/2010 14:46

38? Jeees run for the hills he sounds like an insecure freakoid.

moraldisorder · 07/11/2010 14:46

And anyway if youre giving eachother 'space' why can't you sleep with someone.. this all sounds very infantile to me, sorry.

emmyloulou · 07/11/2010 14:48

He is how old? 38!! Don't go back to him.

everton · 07/11/2010 14:55

To be honest we are having space becuase of his behaviour and attitude towards me. He split from his wife a year ago and doesn't seem able to cope with life alone. He says he wants us, loves me, but then ignores my txt for days. He says he is stressed and depresses etc. Says he will see a councillor but doesn't. You are all right i need to run very quickly ! thank you

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Myleetlepony · 07/11/2010 17:11

I think you "have space" when you are living together and one of you needs to move out. If you're just dating, as it appears you are, and things aren't working out you just split up - don't you? Confused

moraldisorder · 07/11/2010 17:28

If it's this hard, it ain't right.

Faaamily · 07/11/2010 17:32

He sounds like a LOSER

AnyFucker · 07/11/2010 20:32

L

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