I am separated and have been for over a year, the wrong side of 40 with 2DC living away from home.
8 months ago met a guy in a club back in my home town, friend of a friend, had a few drinks, went back to his place 
no sex 
We exchanged mobile numbers and I never really expected to hear from him as we live 100 miles apart.
Anyway time goes on and I meet a local guy and see him about twice a week, he's really lovely, good company but doesn't set the world on fire iyswim.
Then two months ago I began receiving texts, just a few every other week or so, from home town guy asking when I am coming to visit and that he would like to meet up. He said the reason he hadn't been in touch was because he had lost his mobile, hence my number, but had now got it back 
My first thought was after 6 months wtf, is he playing me, why contact me after all that time, do people really lose their phones and they turn up again or they are returned to them.
So on Monday he texts me again and I mention I'm in home town tomorrow. We've arranged to go out.
I'm nervous because it's a date with someone I hardly know, the length of time that has passed since we met, he's also a good looking, flash type (I'm used to that, this was exh too), and the fact that he took me back to his place on the night we met and I was stupid (drunk 
) enough to go, makes me wonder if he does that sort of thing often.
The thing is though, I am intrigued as to see what he is really like, I have thought of him a lot since we met, so I am excited to see him. But I also feel a bit guilty as I am seeing local man too. It seems a bit like cheating. 