hi everyone, can you help me please.
i found my ex on all these sites, naked pictures, cybersex etc as well as emails from escort agencies and he had been stealing from me to fund this habit.
for me there was no question, i left him immediately and filed for divorce. it has been very difficult as i (thought) loved him with all my heart.
it is now a year on and i am still hurting. i have a 1 year old and 2 year old. my ex has been pushing me through court for a long time to get overnight access and now has it. i am terrified that my children will be subject to his online activities. do you think i am justified or should i drop the concern and just concentrate on letting my kids have a good time with their dad. it is hard when the trust is gone. i want to do what is best for my two kids but am torn between what happened to me and if this can ultimately be a problem for the kids. please help
there have been many other things he has done to erode trust and i find it hard to distinguish between him being a complete waste space or if, despite all his failings, can he be a good dad.