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Feeling Blue

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SaggyHairyArse · 31/10/2010 08:54

I separated from DH in September which is a good thing but, you know how it is, life seems to throw stuff at you all at once.

Two weeks after he left I found a breast lump which is thankfully all clear but I had a month of severe stress where I swung from thinking I would be fine to thinking I would die, dying was not the issue, leaving my three kids without a mother was. My car broke down numerous times. I had my DS1s birthday, lots of social commitments, relatives that needed support (post traumatic stress disorder, an unplanned pregnancy and a house repossession) as well as day to day stuff.

For the most part things are settling down but I feel drained and like anything would see me in tears. Not helped by the fact that an ex-boyfriend came back on the scene and whilst he is very lovely and an open book, I am not at all ready for another relationship which is incredibly hard as he is/was the love of my life (despite the fact I was married and have 3 kids by another man).

Phew, thanks for the vent, I know no one can change anything but it's good to talk.

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sunflower1234 · 31/10/2010 09:54

feeling your pain Sad

sounds like you have had so much to go through on your own.

but take credit that you coped, and it will make you stronger

xx

Anniegetyourgun · 31/10/2010 09:59

Look on the bright side, at least you spared yourself the burden of dealing with DH on top of all the other problems.

Delighted to hear your health scare was a false alarm and hope the other things resolve themselves in time.

SaggyHairyArse · 31/10/2010 10:06

Thank you both :)

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