i try so hard. i not keen on sex (age etc) but i am trying to get over it. i get very tired but he moan so i stay up later. moans i drink, i have stopped. certain friends he hates, i avaoid seeing them and still he doesnt change. hates people coming to the house, never really contacts his family *they are great) and now saying we can only have his m and d for xmas (we do every year) but not my mum and husband as not enough room, they all very old and talk about the good old days and he will feel like a waiter. we have a large house there is lots of room but he say not enough chairs and he wont sit on the floor!!!!! i say does that mean my mum never come again coz he wont nor me have his m and d on their own and he say no, he will just have to tell his they cant come, i mean it is maddness, when i say he worry me, he becomming mean and god knows what my life be like in 20 years he shout oh ok let them all come i will look happy happy, you are twisting everything, turns over and sulks. i lay awake most of night. i don't know what to do, if i bring it up again we will row and he will sulk for god knows how long.
I will never leave (had the oportunity but would not go).