After my marriage broke down a few months ago (amicably and friendly) I stayed in a lot with friends and wine and chocolate for company! Whilst DH threw himself into the single scene with much enthusiasm, he has had a few dates and is generally having fun (all when the DC are with me) and although its strange we've been open about this and its ok.
My first night out a few weeks back involved me bumping into a guy I knew years ago and used to fancy loads! 
We really hit it off and had a great laugh and he took my number, since then we've been texting 5/6 times a day and have a 2 'date nights' which were brilliant, the spark between us is amazing he is so sweet and funny and its making me happy. But, my head thinks is this too soon? He's very differnt to DH so im not used to all the football/sport stuff, could he fit into my life with DC (he's fine about them as his are grown up) etc basically im worrying about every little step/hurdle. Friends say just get to know him and have fun, Ex DH thinks I should see more people (like him) but my instincts are just screaming out to try something out with new man. any thoughts?