My husband had an affair last year, soon after I found out, friends of ours came to stay (we had just moved to another country) I was still in shock and ended up confiding in the female of the couple, she was great and seemed very supportive, however after they left I never heard anything from her again. she did however choose to support my husband, I understand that they knew each other before me, and I do think he needs some support too, but to completely ignore me has really shocked me. I was careful to never vilify my husband (even though he may have deserved it!)Other people, including my family were very careful to not take sides, anyway, my dilemma is that we are returning to our home country for a visit soon and it is probable that we will be expected to socialise with them.but is it acceptable to have nothing to do with these people? I feel they took sides and I want nothing more to do with them. My husband is, after counselling, willing to do anything that I need to help me to heal, and will support me in my decision ( I think he is also a little shocked that she never contacted me again actually). What should I do? Thank you