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Woman in love

15 replies

BettysHotPot · 21/10/2010 21:47

Any girls on here that totally love their man and actually feel pain inside when they are away?

My man is away on holiday just now and it's depressing the life out of me.

Can't remember what i did at night before we started seeing each other.

I'm not a big drinker, but I just want to get drunk.

He's away on another stag do, I'm just so worried he'll be up to no good.

He said he'd call everyday, but no calls for 2 days now. Hmm

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fairycake123 · 21/10/2010 21:56

How long have you been together?

thebogtrotter · 21/10/2010 22:06

Go and get pumped!

BettysHotPot · 21/10/2010 22:16

6 years, feels like forever though.

I can't help but think he is cheating, I'm terrified of losing him.

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GypsyMoth · 21/10/2010 22:19

your thinking its love you feel....sounds more like worry to me

why do you think he's cheating,whats wrong in your relationship??

fairycake123 · 21/10/2010 22:20

How old are you both?

Do you have any reason to believe that he's cheating?

fairycake123 · 21/10/2010 22:20

Agree with SprinkleDust on the love/worry point.

WATeresaPerkins · 21/10/2010 22:20

I'm sure there is nothing to worry about. Is it possible he forgot his charger and doesnt have access to a phone?

If he loves you then there is no way he would possibly cheat on you - you just have to trust him

BareBackLover · 22/10/2010 07:21

Betty I'm sure there's a reasonable excuse for your DP to have not been in touch.

Have you got a contact number for any of his friends that are away with him?

Where is he away to?

BBL x

ScaryFucker · 22/10/2010 07:25

Oh dear, such abject desperation does not a good, and equal, partnership make

Women don't "lose" men like some sort of extra-precious possession

Get a grip

ginnny · 22/10/2010 07:34

6 years and you are like this because he's gone away for a few days? Sounds a bit clingy and needy to me.
I've been with my bf for 6 weeks and I am totally loved up but I could handle a few daysa apart!

mmmwine · 22/10/2010 07:41

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BettysHotPot · 22/10/2010 08:41

@ Teresa - I packed his bag, I know he's got his charger.

@BBL - Tenerife for a stag do.

@MMMW - Yes, he goes away with the lads regularly, usually to follow his football team to europe, but they were knocked out early this year, then suddenly there is a stag do? Hmm

@Ginny - I'm afraid i'm going to lose him to some strumpet!

@fairycake - Call it womens intuition.

@Sprinkledust - What's wrong is I love him, but he seems to love going away with his mates more. Sad

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ginnny · 22/10/2010 10:21

mmmwine - At the moment I see him most evenings in the week and all weekend, and the nights we don't see each other we text and phone each other a lot. I think that is a lot tbh but he hasn't had a girlfriend for a year so I think I'm a bit of a novelty Grin
BettysHotPot - Has he ever done anything to betray your trust? If not then you have to trust him or you will lose him for sure. The worst thing you can do is to get possessive and clingy, that will drive him away. Get a good book and some dvd's and enjoy having some quality time to yourself and chill out.

WhenwillIfeelnormal · 22/10/2010 10:33

Suspect this is another bloke from the motoring site. I don't know any woman who calls another, "a strumpet". Not that any of these wankers blokes have ever studied Shakespeare, I should think Grin.

ScaryFucker · 22/10/2010 17:06

WWIFN [hgrin]

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