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[WATeresaPerkins]

Hi all

My name is Teresa and I'm 19 (20 in November) with a DS aged 2 and another baby due in April. I've been with my DP for 4 years now and I'm concerned its coming to the end now. He is a nice enough guy, most of the time, but is starting to lack interest in me and our DS and spend alot more time with his friends. I don't have a problem with this except that this Sunday is our 4 year anniversary and he's ditching me to go out with 3 'school' friends.

I don't want to keep him under the thumb but surely ditching me on our anniversary should leave me thinking.

What would all you ladies do?

T x

No problem, just ignore me and focus on the really excellent advice from the other people!

I shall do - I take it you do not have any other advice to add?

I'm sure that even if Shirley has no further advice, some of the other ladies on the site will be along soon with some words of wisdom. Come on all you ladies!

Not gonna lie - I don't really think I need much more advice. I know that I love him and he loves me - I just guess its the disappointment of not getting to spend my anniversary alone with him. With my DS time alone is very rare.

That's why you should plan something else. Arrange for your mum to have DS and suggest he takes you out.

You can still celebrate your anniversary, just on a different day.

And maybe when you get your 2011 calander, put the date on there in BIG letters!!

There won't be any suggesting done HMOH

[hgrin]

Good, well, whatever you decide on, enjoy yourself.

I'm guessing that your DP is off to the watch the Old Firm game on Sunday Nightmare weekend for football widows in Scotland.

Can you meet up with some friends of your own on Sunday? Have some fun of your own and leave him to his football.

Or you could get your mum to look after your DS, get the stockings and heels on and he'll want to go no where :O

Make him want to stay at home. If you've got the house to just you and your husband, surely there could be some fun :)

Do you not have any friends you could spend time with on Sunday?Let him enjoy the game and you have fun with your own friends.You need time apart anyway,and hopefully he comes home in a better mood.Then,don't put out.That'll teach him.

BB - yes he is - going to one of these Irish bars to watch his "mighty hoops" personally I hope they get absolutly hammered since its left we without any plans - trying to see if I can get the girlies to come shopping with me on his card

Sounds like a good plan, enjoy yourself with the girls and leave him to his football :)

WATP maybe he's going out because you've got a 'mighty hoop' and not doing it for him anymore?

I'd be out of that relationship in a minute.

Good luck love

BBL x