How long til he said "i love you"?

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Just wondering what other people's stories are?

Latest bloke - just over 3 months. XH - seven months. One overly keen ex - 1 month. I think around 3 months is normal?

I don't remember. Because it's not the saying it that is important.

3 weeks. And every day since then.

Soppy twat.

4 days, and every day since. Lovely soppy fool that he is

A few weeks, but we'd been good friends for 3 years before we got together iykwim

Together for 15 years, married for 8, still waiting.....

Oh no, I can feel a competitive thread beginning!

"2 days."

"20 minutes."

"He carved it into a tree the day I was born."

"He carved it into my forehead with a toothpick."

About the same as laurie's post

No I'm not being competitive! I'm totally aware that we rushed into everything, although we had been together for 3 years when we got married.

MrsDepp - he's never said he loves you? :(

V quickly. Doesn't matter though does it? Actions, words, louder blah blah blah.

Not, don't think so. But he shows it. (aaah!)

I have a few years on MrsDepp but am not waiting, have never said it either, but it is not as if we don't love each other, I think we would both feel it would just be too soppy

17 years or thereabouts, but every day since I found out about his affair.... Ironic really cos I used to say it to him all the time. Now he says it to me all the time but the words just stick in my throat.

DH - 5 months though I knew before he said it.

Some of these are longer than i would have thought..!
And some of you ... never??

Both of my long-term/serious relationships - after 3 months. Which I thought was probably appropriate in terms of our relationship stage at the time.

I was ready to say it then, too, but I waited until I heard it first. Yes, I know I'm mature

3 weeks, but he was only 15.

3 months here. I told him first - he waited for me to say it then told me he felt the same. We were both scared of scaring the other away, or not being reciprocated, but both felt huge relief and happiness once we had said it! Actually, it was only this week!!!