I have been in a relationship for 10 years and have 2 ds. We have had alot of rows and it's been pretty rocky. I'm not 100% sure but i think the underlying problem is sex, at least that what he says. I just don't have any interest in it at all. I do love him but i'm not sure i fancy him. Over time he has made a big deal about it, called me all the names under the sun, frigid etc etc and i now always feel that the pressure is on.
The way we were getting on improved this last few months. We didn't argue and there hasn't been the usual tense atmosphere, for me things were good. This last week or two things have gone downhill, he's gone moody again and says that he changed and i still haven't given him what he wants (sex)
We have started to argue about stuff again. Last night he told me someone had said he should leave me and then wouldn't tell me anymore. Today he says that i make his life shit and don't give him what he wants and unless i sort myself out he's selling the house and we split. I do everything a partner does and i do have sex even tho i don't want to and every time the shit hits the fan like this i want to even less. I feel like i will have to pretend and be all nicey nicey and have sex so that my kids don't end up in a broken home. I have read on here that some of you don't want sex alot and you don't seem to have the trouble i have. I feel sooooo depressed and don't know what to do.
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sosad · 12/08/2003 10:40
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