Does it EVER work the second time round....

[MayaBlue]

Thinking about getting back with someone I split up with almost 9 months ago....

We'd only been together a few months, all very whirlwind, don't really know why it ended but he's been thinking about me all this time and I have about him. He wants to see me again and I do know that if we do decide to start again we'll have to learn from our mistakes.

Has second time around worked for anyone here?

Yes it is working for us and it is hard work :)

We met 12 years ago, we were both out of relationships and both had young children. We lived together, set up a business together etc.... for around 3 years then it all fell apart.

We both moved on. I bought my own home with ds. He did the same with his dds.

We stayed in touch and remained friends and still kept in touch with each others kids.

I went out with a few people but always had a thing for him.

Around 3 years later we got back together and got married 6 years ago and have had two children since. We have our ups and downs but I am happy that we did and it is working out.

You'll probably remember very quickly what it was that made you end it the first time!

Glad it worked out for you Sariah, but that's what I'm worried about FA!

My DW broke up with me when we were dating cos she thought that I really didn't want the relationship...I had to work very hard for a restart. I think you should go at a controlled pace. Make him appreciate you!

thank you TD - that is my plan.....