Don't knonw if this is the right place but thought I'd try.
I had my first child nearly 5 years ago. Since she was about 3 months old have have had absolutely no libido whatsoever. I used to really enjoy sex and was fairly open and uninhibited with my husband. But for the last 5 years, nothing. I want to want to have sex, but I just don't. My poor poor husband who I love deeply, has been very understanding but at some point things have to change. I can't see us being like this forever. I like to be naked next to him and feel him next to me, but really don't like the thought of anything happening. I even find kissing too sexual.
I also have really bad mood swings. I was always pretty level headed but now, I can just snap - especially, sadly, with my kids. I love them, but seem to have no patience with them.
I'm just wondering if anyone else is/has been like this and what I can do.
Could it be a hormone imbalance? Or am I just a freak and I'll have to live with being psychotic and loveless?????