Dh has never met him before although they spoke on the phone a few years ago for the first time for a few months. However dh then boke contact because mil had serious issues and was putting dh under alot of pressure.
Dh then tried to make contact again without the input of mil but things never got on track as his real dad had moved to another country so it made contact quite difficult and expensive (plus we didnt have FB then) so dh just didn't bother.
I can't stop looking at this guys picture on his profile page and wondering what he's like (dh is nothing like mil thankgod). Plus theres my children and their family history not to mention real grandfather. Part of me whats to explain to his dad why he broke contact as typically with all men he didn't give an explaination and didn't want to bad mouth his mum. I know it would be wrong to contact him but im so curiuos since having the children.