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separated

3 replies

SNOWBall4girlz · 27/09/2010 12:02

how do you make it official and how to cope when you cannot live apart straight away
thankyou

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Madascheese · 27/09/2010 12:40

You can draw up a deed of separation with agreements of how things will be split.

Do you have children?

Hope you're coping?

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SNOWBall4girlz · 28/09/2010 17:45

It is not me personally asking on behalf of friend and thank you
who draws up the deed and is it legal ?
amicable split btw
yes there are children but he wont move out and my friend doesnt see why she should plus she needs hinm to babysit and help.

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ilovewoody · 28/09/2010 19:45

She needs to see a solicitor and they will sort out the details of the separation, who will get what, how the kids will be provided for.
Probably best to do that soon whilst things are amicable - they might not always stay like that
Not sure about the living together part. I am recently seperated but was able to move out and stay with my parents

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