A couple of weeks ago, we had my sil staying for 6 nights see here and I tought she was taking the piss a bit but I have also admitted I was a bit unreasonnable. Anyway, I have been hoest with her and told her that it was not very practical for us to sleep on our sofa as it meant that we had to go to sleep very early as she needed to go to sleep early as she was starting her day work at 6 am. She wanted to come the following week but I have said no sorry, we cant have you. She said ok I'll ask my friend. We left it at that after a lovely last evening with her.
This week, I have seen on Facebook that she was begging her friends for an accomodation for her and my bil for west london, 2 nights next week and 3 nights the following week in west london. One of her friend offered to have them in Notting hill but she declined the offer.
Then, my bil asked my dh if if he could come and crash on our sofa for a couple of nights, I was not happy about it but obviously I have said yes. He said only 2 nights and we agreed.
However I'm worried because, my sil is asking again (she is begging as it is all put in capital letters) to have the 2 of them (my sil and bil) for a couple of nights and the following week for 3 nights...
Dont you think it is a little bit confusing ?? We have agreed to have bil for 2 nights next week but she is still looking for accomodation ?? I'm worried she is going to ask us when I have already been clear on the subject. Worse, my bil is going to come with sil without asking us and we wont find the strenght to refuse. What you would you do ?