Am seething, and feel really icky. I'm currently living in NL, he is in the UK. I know that this is TMI, but we have Skype chats every so often so that he can release "frustration" as it were during the times that we are not in the same country. I'm not as keen on them, not least because dd and I are in a one room flat, and it makes me feel so gross to think of her being in the same room, so the only time I will do it is at lunchtime if she is at school. I'm his dp, it's my fault I'm over here, and sometimes it's a good 5 weeks before we see each other, so am trying to be understanding, but only really want to do it if necessary. I've gently suggested that he use internet materials if he is feeling uncomfortable but flatly refuses and says he is only attracted to me 
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We saw each other last weekend, and are seeing each other next weekend. That to me isn't too bad at all, and quite manageable. Have just spoken to him and he "jokingly" said that if I don't have a skype date with him tomorrow he will go to a prostitute. I feel like a ransomed whore now, and promptly ended the call, but don't know what to do. I'm all shakey and shivery, and never knew that he basically saw me as a lump of meat. I feel so gross.