Help, advice wanted about marital sex?

[Licey]

Can anyone give me some sound advice about how to get my libido back?

I have been married 15 years, have 3 gorgeous children and love my husband, but the only area that is a problem is our sex life. He is loving and we have a good relationship (despite him being not that affectionate anymore), and I just don't think about sex or really want it (with him or anyone, so I know its not that I've gone off him, more I've gone off sex in total). We end up having sex about once every 2 months. When we do have it, it is lovely, but I just don't have much of a libido - anyone got any suggestions?

I think the 'not that affectionate anymore' comment explains the problem. He needs to make more of an effort to woo you.

Second honeymoon?

It's a difficult habit to break when you go for a while not having it. I find the more I have the more I want IYSWIM.

Maybe speak to GP. Do you feel depressed? Low self esteem?

Yes, please check over with GP. Then try getting fit/playing sport together...very sexy and doesn wonders for your sense of well being