marriage guidance and/or info on divorce law

[anto]

Hi

Is anyone able to recommend any mariage guidance/couples counselling in the London area? i also, sadly, need to know a little bit about divorce law and the way it works.

Yesterday morning at 8.30 a man rang on my doorbell and told me that his wife and my husband are having an affair and that it's been going on since mid-May. I have a 2yr 10mth old and a 4 month old. I am really struggling to hold it all together and I need to know what I am entitled to. At the moment my husband is talking about leaving us and doesn't believe me when I say he will still have to support us in the marital home for the foreseeable future, but I think that's correct. Also the woman he is thinking of leaving me for has 2 small kids but isn't married to their father so I understand he will have to support the children but not her. Which means, I think, that my husband will have to support us and him & her, somehow. I am still breastfeeding and not due to go back to work (2 days a week) till next Jan. I have a nanny 2 days a week and he says she will have to go first of all.

And all this because he felt 'trapped' by arrival of a much-wanted second baby. Ironic, isn't it, as now he's going to be well and truly shackled.